The longest word in standard English dictionaries is pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis at 45 letters long.
The longest English word that does not contain the letter 'e' is floccinaucinihilipilification at 29 letters.
Cabbaged and fabaceae, each 8 letters long, are the longest words that can be played on a musical instrument.
Aegilops, 8 letters long, is the longest word with its letters arranged in alphabetical order.
Spoonfed, 9 letters long, is the longest word with its letters arranged in reverse alphabetical order.
CIMICIC and CIMICID, each 7 letters long, are the longest words that are exclusively made up of Roman numerals when written in upper case. Among words consisting of only Roman numeral letters, the "highest scoring" are MIMIC (2,102) and IMMIX (2,012).
Overnumerousnesses, 18 letters long, is the longest word that consists of only letters that lack ascenders, descenders and dots in lower case.
Lighttight and hillypilly, each 10 letters long, are the longest words consisting only of letters with ascenders, descenders and dots in lower case.
Tittifill, 9 letters long, is the longest word consisting only of letters with ascenders or dots in lower case.
Honorificabilitudinitatibus, 27 letters long, is the longest word consisting strictly of alternating consonents and vowels.
Dermatoglyphics, misconjugatedly and uncopyrightable , each 15 letters long, are the longest words in which no letter appears more than once.
Unprosperousness, 16 letters long, is the longest word in which each letter occurs at least twice.
Esophagographers, 16 letter long, is the longest word in which each of its letters occurs twice.
Discrete - discreet is the longest homophonic anagram (2 similarly pronounced words that are spelled differently but sound the same and are composed of the same letters).
Redivider is the longest common palindromic word ( a word reading the same backwards and forwards).
The longest words that are reverse images of each other are stressed and desserts.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Sunday, July 22, 2007
FUNNY ONE LINER
Funny One Liners
1.. My husband and I divorced over religious differences. He thought he was God and I didn’t.
2.. I don’t suffer from insanity; I enjoy every minute of it.
3.. Some people are alive only because it’s illegal to kill them.
4.. I used to have a handle on life, but it broke.
5.. Don’t take life too seriously; No one gets out alive.
6.. You’re just jealous because the voices only talk to me
7.. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.
8.. Earth is the insane asylum for the universe.
9.. I’m not a complete idiot — Some parts are just missing.
10..God must love stupid people; He made so many.
11..The gene pool could use a little chlorine.
12..Consciousness: That annoying time between naps.
13..Ever stop to think, and forget to start again?
14..Being “over the hill” is much better than being under it!
15..Wrinkled Was Not One of the Things I Wanted to Be When I Grew up.
16..Procrastinate Now!
17.. I have an MBA, would you like to see the wine list sir?
18..A hangover is the wrath of grapes.
19..A journey of a thousand miles begins with a cash advance
20..Stupidity is not a handicap. Park elsewhere!
21..They call it PMS because Mad Cow Disease was already taken.
22..A picture is worth a thousand words, but it uses up three thousand times the memory.
23..Ham and eggs. A day’s work for a chicken, a lifetime commitment for a pig.
24..The trouble with life is there’s no background music.
25..The original point and click interface was a Smith & Wesson.
26..I smile because I don’t know what the hell is going on.
TOUNG TWISTER
1. If you understand, say "understand" . If you don't understand, say " don't understand". But if you understand and say "don't understand". How do I understand that you understand? Understand!
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2.I wish to wish the wish you wish to wish, but if you wish the wish the witch wishes, I won't wish the wish you wish to wish.
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3. Sounding by sound is a sound method of sounding sounds.
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4 .A sailor went to sea to see, what he could see. And all he could see was sea, sea, sea.
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5 . Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People
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6 .If two witches were watching two watches, which witch would watch which watch?
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7 .I thought a thought.But the thought I thought wasn't the thought I thought I thought. If the thought I thought I thought had been the thought I thought, I wouldn't have thought so much.
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8 .Once a fellow met a fellow In a field of beans. Said a fellow to a fellow, "If a fellow asks a fellow, Can a fellow tell a fellow What a fellow means?"
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9.Mr Inside went over to see Mr Outside. Mr Inside stood outside and called to MrOutside inside.
Mr Outside answered Mr Inside from inside and Told Mr Inside to come inside. Mr Inside said "NO", and told Mr Outside to come outside.
Mr Outside and Mr Inside argued from inside and outside about going outside or coming inside. Finally, Mr Outside coaxed Mr Inside to come inside, then both Mr Outside and Mr Inside went outside to the riverside.
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10.SHE SELLS SEA SHELLS ON THE SEA SHORE , BUT THE SEA SHELLS THAT SHE SELLS, ON THE SEA SHORE ARE NOT THE REAL ONES
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11. The owner of the inside inn was inside his inside inn with his inside outside his inside inn.
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12.If one doctor doctors another doctor does the doctor who doctors the doctor doctor the doctor the way the doctor he is doctoring doctors? Or does the doctor doctor the way the doctor who doctors doctors?
"When a doctor falls ill another doctor doctor's the doctor. Does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctor the doctor in his own way or does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctors the doctor in the doctor's way"
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13.We surely shall see the sun shine shortly. Whether the weather be fine, Or whether the weather be not, Whether the weather be cold Or whether the weather be hot, We'll weather the weather Whatever the weather, Whether we like it or not. Watch? Whether the weather is hot.
Whether the weather is cold. Whether the weather is either or not. It is whether we like it or not.
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14.Nine nice night nurses nursing nicely .
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15 .A flea and a fly in a flue Said the fly "Oh what should we do" Said the flea" Let us fly Said the fly"Let us flee" So they flew through a flaw in the flue
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16.If you tell Tom to tell a tongue-twister his tongue will be twisted as tongue-twister twists tongues.
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17.Mr. See owned a saw.And Mr. Soar owned a seesaw. Now See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw Before Soar saw See, Which made Soar sore.Had Soar seen See's saw Before See sawed Soar's seesaw, See's saw would not have sawed Soar's seesaw. So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.But it was sad to see Soar so sore Just because See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw .....
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2.I wish to wish the wish you wish to wish, but if you wish the wish the witch wishes, I won't wish the wish you wish to wish.
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3. Sounding by sound is a sound method of sounding sounds.
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4 .A sailor went to sea to see, what he could see. And all he could see was sea, sea, sea.
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5 . Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People
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6 .If two witches were watching two watches, which witch would watch which watch?
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7 .I thought a thought.But the thought I thought wasn't the thought I thought I thought. If the thought I thought I thought had been the thought I thought, I wouldn't have thought so much.
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8 .Once a fellow met a fellow In a field of beans. Said a fellow to a fellow, "If a fellow asks a fellow, Can a fellow tell a fellow What a fellow means?"
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9.Mr Inside went over to see Mr Outside. Mr Inside stood outside and called to MrOutside inside.
Mr Outside answered Mr Inside from inside and Told Mr Inside to come inside. Mr Inside said "NO", and told Mr Outside to come outside.
Mr Outside and Mr Inside argued from inside and outside about going outside or coming inside. Finally, Mr Outside coaxed Mr Inside to come inside, then both Mr Outside and Mr Inside went outside to the riverside.
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10.SHE SELLS SEA SHELLS ON THE SEA SHORE , BUT THE SEA SHELLS THAT SHE SELLS, ON THE SEA SHORE ARE NOT THE REAL ONES
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11. The owner of the inside inn was inside his inside inn with his inside outside his inside inn.
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12.If one doctor doctors another doctor does the doctor who doctors the doctor doctor the doctor the way the doctor he is doctoring doctors? Or does the doctor doctor the way the doctor who doctors doctors?
"When a doctor falls ill another doctor doctor's the doctor. Does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctor the doctor in his own way or does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctors the doctor in the doctor's way"
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13.We surely shall see the sun shine shortly. Whether the weather be fine, Or whether the weather be not, Whether the weather be cold Or whether the weather be hot, We'll weather the weather Whatever the weather, Whether we like it or not. Watch? Whether the weather is hot.
Whether the weather is cold. Whether the weather is either or not. It is whether we like it or not.
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14.Nine nice night nurses nursing nicely .
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15 .A flea and a fly in a flue Said the fly "Oh what should we do" Said the flea" Let us fly Said the fly"Let us flee" So they flew through a flaw in the flue
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16.If you tell Tom to tell a tongue-twister his tongue will be twisted as tongue-twister twists tongues.
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17.Mr. See owned a saw.And Mr. Soar owned a seesaw. Now See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw Before Soar saw See, Which made Soar sore.Had Soar seen See's saw Before See sawed Soar's seesaw, See's saw would not have sawed Soar's seesaw. So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.But it was sad to see Soar so sore Just because See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw .....
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RESUME WRITING TIPS AND STRATEGIES
Resume writing tips and strategies
1. Keep It Focused and Businesslike:
A resume should be specific and all business. Don't try to be too smart or too cute. After all, you are asking an employer to invest significant time and money by choosing you over many other similarly qualified people. Employers mainly want to know whether you are appropriately qualified and experienced, and if you have the ability to "deliver the goods."
2. More Than Two Pages Is Too Much:
For students, recent graduates, or people with just a few years of experience, try to keep your resume to one page, two as an absolute maximum. Even a resume for someone with20 years or more of extensive working experience, should not exceed three pages. In some cases, one or two "optional" pages can be referred to as "available upon request." These would be such optional annexes as a list of references or an inventory of recent
projects and/or publications.
3. Get The Words and Punctuation Right:
Make sure the grammar, spelling, and punctuation in your resume are perfect. Any obvious mistakes will hurt your credibility. Also, be sure to keep the language clear and simple. If you draft it yourself, have someone with excellent writing skills do an editorial review and a careful proofread of it. If a professional prepares it for you, such reviews are the responsibility of the resume preparation firm. Use an accepted English language "style guide" if you want to be sure of the finer points of word usage, punctuation, capitalization, abbreviations, etc.
4. Read Between The Lines:
Customize the resume to match the stated requirements of the job that you are applying for, without being misleading. Review and analyze the job advertisement carefully. Look for and itemize the key qualifications, skills, and abilities the employer is seeking. Then identify certain key words that are usually repeated in such ads. Make sure that the wording and sequence of points in your resume reflect and address these "corporate
terminologies" and" code words" as much as possible. When possible, study the company's annual report and Web site, and weave the themes and terms found there into your resume and cover letter.
5. Make Sure It Looks Good:
Use a crisp, clean, simple presentation format for a professional looking resume. Just a bit of simple line work and/or shading, done with standard word processing software will do the trick. If you don't have the aptitude for this, there is most likely someone among your friends or in your office who can help you achieve a professional presentation. If not, seek professional advice. It won't cost much for a good simple layout, but it will make a world of difference to the product.
6. Show What You Can Do Today:
Focus, first and foremost, on your recent experience that is most relevant to the position at hand. Less relevant and/or dated experience should be either eliminated or summarized in brief point form near the end of your resume. When reviewing your resume information, a prospective employer wants to know what you are doing now, what you have done recently, and how that relates to the job requirements of the post they are trying to fill.
7. Be A Straight-Shooter:
Be completely honest. When people lie or "creatively exaggerate" on their resume, they are almost invariably exposed, sooner or later. Think about it - who really wants to get a job based on a lie(s) and then have to live in fear of eventually being found out? We often read in the newspaper about high-profile folks who get caught in are sume falsehood or exaggeration, and it isn't very pretty.
8. Follow The Instructions:
Submit your resume in exactly the form that the prospective employer requests. If they say e-mail or fax is okay, do it that way. However, if they ask for it by regular mail, send it the way they ask. They must have reasons for requesting it in such a form and they are geared up to process it that way. If your resume is to be sent by snail mail, use the complete address that they specify, or it could go to the wrong office, especially in a large organization.
9. Don't Get Lost In The Mail:
Be careful to respect certain conventions that the potential employer may require in your resume. For example, make sure that the cover letter mentions the exact name of the specific position you are applying for, and the competition number, if applicable. Sometimes an employer will request that the job title and/or number be printed on the outside of the envelope. You would not want to miss out on a job because you didn't follow minor administrative requirements.
10. Keep The Cover Short and Focused:
In the cover letter, don't repeat what is already detailed in the body of the attached resume. It is a "cover" letter. It should be short and to the point. Introduce yourself first, and then briefly summarize why you believe that you have the qualifications and experience to fulfill the duties of the position better than anyone else. Express enthusiasm about the job and the company. Close by stating how you are looking forward to hearing more from them soon, and that you will follow-up if necessary.
A resume should be specific and all business. Don't try to be too smart or too cute. After all, you are asking an employer to invest significant time and money by choosing you over many other similarly qualified people. Employers mainly want to know whether you are appropriately qualified and experienced, and if you have the ability to "deliver the goods."
2. More Than Two Pages Is Too Much:
For students, recent graduates, or people with just a few years of experience, try to keep your resume to one page, two as an absolute maximum. Even a resume for someone with20 years or more of extensive working experience, should not exceed three pages. In some cases, one or two "optional" pages can be referred to as "available upon request." These would be such optional annexes as a list of references or an inventory of recent
projects and/or publications.
3. Get The Words and Punctuation Right:
Make sure the grammar, spelling, and punctuation in your resume are perfect. Any obvious mistakes will hurt your credibility. Also, be sure to keep the language clear and simple. If you draft it yourself, have someone with excellent writing skills do an editorial review and a careful proofread of it. If a professional prepares it for you, such reviews are the responsibility of the resume preparation firm. Use an accepted English language "style guide" if you want to be sure of the finer points of word usage, punctuation, capitalization, abbreviations, etc.
4. Read Between The Lines:
Customize the resume to match the stated requirements of the job that you are applying for, without being misleading. Review and analyze the job advertisement carefully. Look for and itemize the key qualifications, skills, and abilities the employer is seeking. Then identify certain key words that are usually repeated in such ads. Make sure that the wording and sequence of points in your resume reflect and address these "corporate
terminologies" and" code words" as much as possible. When possible, study the company's annual report and Web site, and weave the themes and terms found there into your resume and cover letter.
5. Make Sure It Looks Good:
Use a crisp, clean, simple presentation format for a professional looking resume. Just a bit of simple line work and/or shading, done with standard word processing software will do the trick. If you don't have the aptitude for this, there is most likely someone among your friends or in your office who can help you achieve a professional presentation. If not, seek professional advice. It won't cost much for a good simple layout, but it will make a world of difference to the product.
6. Show What You Can Do Today:
Focus, first and foremost, on your recent experience that is most relevant to the position at hand. Less relevant and/or dated experience should be either eliminated or summarized in brief point form near the end of your resume. When reviewing your resume information, a prospective employer wants to know what you are doing now, what you have done recently, and how that relates to the job requirements of the post they are trying to fill.
7. Be A Straight-Shooter:
Be completely honest. When people lie or "creatively exaggerate" on their resume, they are almost invariably exposed, sooner or later. Think about it - who really wants to get a job based on a lie(s) and then have to live in fear of eventually being found out? We often read in the newspaper about high-profile folks who get caught in are sume falsehood or exaggeration, and it isn't very pretty.
8. Follow The Instructions:
Submit your resume in exactly the form that the prospective employer requests. If they say e-mail or fax is okay, do it that way. However, if they ask for it by regular mail, send it the way they ask. They must have reasons for requesting it in such a form and they are geared up to process it that way. If your resume is to be sent by snail mail, use the complete address that they specify, or it could go to the wrong office, especially in a large organization.
9. Don't Get Lost In The Mail:
Be careful to respect certain conventions that the potential employer may require in your resume. For example, make sure that the cover letter mentions the exact name of the specific position you are applying for, and the competition number, if applicable. Sometimes an employer will request that the job title and/or number be printed on the outside of the envelope. You would not want to miss out on a job because you didn't follow minor administrative requirements.
10. Keep The Cover Short and Focused:
In the cover letter, don't repeat what is already detailed in the body of the attached resume. It is a "cover" letter. It should be short and to the point. Introduce yourself first, and then briefly summarize why you believe that you have the qualifications and experience to fulfill the duties of the position better than anyone else. Express enthusiasm about the job and the company. Close by stating how you are looking forward to hearing more from them soon, and that you will follow-up if necessary.
HOW TO SUCCESS!!
PLAN while others are playing.
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STUDY while others are sleeping.
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DECIDE while others are delaying.
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PREPARE while others are daydreaming.
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BEGIN while others are procrastinating.
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WORK while others are wishing.
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SAVE while others are wasting .
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LISTEN while others are talking.
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SMILE while others are frowning.
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COMMEND while others are criticizing.
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PERSIST while others are quitting.
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STUDY while others are sleeping.
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DECIDE while others are delaying.
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PREPARE while others are daydreaming.
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BEGIN while others are procrastinating.
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WORK while others are wishing.
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SAVE while others are wasting .
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LISTEN while others are talking.
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SMILE while others are frowning.
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COMMEND while others are criticizing.
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PERSIST while others are quitting.
why i joined IT?
1) I hated sleep.
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2) I had enjoyed my life enough.
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3) I couldn't live without tension.
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4) I wanted to pay for my sins.
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5) I believed in the Bhagwad Geeta principle : karm karo , phal ki ichha na karo..
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6) Everything in life has a reason; I wanted to prove it wrong.
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7) I wanted to take revenge on myself .
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2) I had enjoyed my life enough.
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3) I couldn't live without tension.
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4) I wanted to pay for my sins.
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5) I believed in the Bhagwad Geeta principle : karm karo , phal ki ichha na karo..
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6) Everything in life has a reason; I wanted to prove it wrong.
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7) I wanted to take revenge on myself .
sachin has most expensive sport book in world
What is common between Sachin Tendulkar and two unidentified Kolkata book/sports lovers?
While Tendulkar possesses a copy of the most expensive sports book ever - legendary boxer Muhammad Ali's GOAT - the two men own the high-priced magnum opus Pele, on the celebrated Brazilian footballer.
GOAT, acronym for 'The Greatest Of All Time', is priced at $12,500 (Rs. 505,200) while the cheaper version of Pele: Edson Arantes do Nascimento biography available in India costs £1,600 (around $3,300 or Rs.1,37,600) .
Tendulkar did not have to spend a penny on GOAT: A Tribute to Muhammad Ali as "someone in London presented" him a copy of the world's costliest sports book weighing 34 kg.
The two Kolkata sports lovers, however, have paid for their passion.
Marine Sports - India's oldest sports bookstore in Mumbai - brought three copies of the luxury edition of Pele - the second most expensive book of the world that is published in two editions.
"I ordered copies of 'Pele's' cheaper version after someone in Kolkata ordered one copy of the masterpiece a month ago," Theo Braganza of Marine Sports said.
"But I bought three copies, thinking that someone would surely buy the other two as people in India have stared appreciating expensive books and artefacts."
"On Wednesday, the other two copies were purchased by another Kolkata man," he said. The buyers wanted to remain anonymous, Braganza added.
Tendulkar excitedly disclosed of his prized possession during the Indian cricket team's tour of Pakistan last year while waiting for a flight in Lahore.
Taschen has published GOAT, a tribute to the three-time world heavyweight champion Ali. It runs into 800 pages and is 50x50 cm in dimension.
Pele is published by Gloria Books and has 720 pages.
Gloria printed only 2,500 copies of the authorised biography - all numbered - and Pele personally signed each one of them.
The book, which is 45x35 cm in dimension, weighs about 18 kg. It contains 1,700 pictures and covers every key moment of Pele's life from early childhood.
Pele, who scored well over 1,200 goals in his illustrious career for Brazil, Santos club and the now-defunct New York Cosmos, has himself made a contribution to the book that was launched during the 2006 World Cup in Germany.
Encouraged after selling all the copies, Braganza is now planning to buy more copies of Pele, if available.
"By Wednesday night I got six inquires about Pele I am surely encouraged to bring in more copies after those telephone calls," he said.
Braganza said that all the people who called him up wanted a discount, but he declined because he makes only a "nominal profit" on the book.
"Considering the high shipping and courier charges, there is no room left for any discount, even though I wanted to give 10 per cent discount as usual," he said.
He also rued that he could not open the neatly packed book and see inside pages despite being "tempted".
Braganza said that he had also attempted to bring in the GOAT but pointed out that since boxing is not as popular as football in India people did not show much interest.
Pele includes new autobiographical material from the man himself, besides contributions from some well-known writers such as Hugh McIlvanney, Brian Glanville and Alex Bellos as well as Joao Maximo, Jose Werneck and Juca Kfouri from Brazil.
While Tendulkar possesses a copy of the most expensive sports book ever - legendary boxer Muhammad Ali's GOAT - the two men own the high-priced magnum opus Pele, on the celebrated Brazilian footballer.
GOAT, acronym for 'The Greatest Of All Time', is priced at $12,500 (Rs. 505,200) while the cheaper version of Pele: Edson Arantes do Nascimento biography available in India costs £1,600 (around $3,300 or Rs.1,37,600) .
Tendulkar did not have to spend a penny on GOAT: A Tribute to Muhammad Ali as "someone in London presented" him a copy of the world's costliest sports book weighing 34 kg.
The two Kolkata sports lovers, however, have paid for their passion.
Marine Sports - India's oldest sports bookstore in Mumbai - brought three copies of the luxury edition of Pele - the second most expensive book of the world that is published in two editions.
"I ordered copies of 'Pele's' cheaper version after someone in Kolkata ordered one copy of the masterpiece a month ago," Theo Braganza of Marine Sports said.
"But I bought three copies, thinking that someone would surely buy the other two as people in India have stared appreciating expensive books and artefacts."
"On Wednesday, the other two copies were purchased by another Kolkata man," he said. The buyers wanted to remain anonymous, Braganza added.
Tendulkar excitedly disclosed of his prized possession during the Indian cricket team's tour of Pakistan last year while waiting for a flight in Lahore.
Taschen has published GOAT, a tribute to the three-time world heavyweight champion Ali. It runs into 800 pages and is 50x50 cm in dimension.
Pele is published by Gloria Books and has 720 pages.
Gloria printed only 2,500 copies of the authorised biography - all numbered - and Pele personally signed each one of them.
The book, which is 45x35 cm in dimension, weighs about 18 kg. It contains 1,700 pictures and covers every key moment of Pele's life from early childhood.
Pele, who scored well over 1,200 goals in his illustrious career for Brazil, Santos club and the now-defunct New York Cosmos, has himself made a contribution to the book that was launched during the 2006 World Cup in Germany.
Encouraged after selling all the copies, Braganza is now planning to buy more copies of Pele, if available.
"By Wednesday night I got six inquires about Pele I am surely encouraged to bring in more copies after those telephone calls," he said.
Braganza said that all the people who called him up wanted a discount, but he declined because he makes only a "nominal profit" on the book.
"Considering the high shipping and courier charges, there is no room left for any discount, even though I wanted to give 10 per cent discount as usual," he said.
He also rued that he could not open the neatly packed book and see inside pages despite being "tempted".
Braganza said that he had also attempted to bring in the GOAT but pointed out that since boxing is not as popular as football in India people did not show much interest.
Pele includes new autobiographical material from the man himself, besides contributions from some well-known writers such as Hugh McIlvanney, Brian Glanville and Alex Bellos as well as Joao Maximo, Jose Werneck and Juca Kfouri from Brazil.
5 WAYS PARENTS CAN HANDLE THEIR ANGER
5 WAYS PARENTS CAN HANDLE THEIR ANGER
1. Heal your angry past
Parenting can be therapeutic. It can show you where your problems are and motivate you to fix them. If your past is loaded with unresolved anger, take steps to heal yourself before you wind up harming your child. Studies have shown that children whose mothers often express anger are more likely to be difficult to discipline. Identify problems in your past that could contribute to present anger. Were you abused or harshly punished as a child? Do you have difficulty controlling your temper? Do you sense a lack of inner peace? Identify present situations that are making you angry, such as dissatisfaction with job, spouse, self, child. Remember, you mirror your emotions. If your child sees a chronically angry face and hears an angry voice, that's the person he is more likely to become.
2. Keep your perspective
Every person has an anger button. Some parents are so anger prone that when they explode the family dog hides. Try this exercise. First, divide your children's "misbehaviors" into smallies (nuisances and annoyances) which are not worth the wear and tear of getting angry about, and biggies (hurting self, others, and property) which demand a response, for your own sake and your child's.
Next, condition yourself so that you don't let the smallies bother you. Here are some "tapes" to play in your mind the next time you or your child spills something:
· "I'm angry, but I can control myself."
· "Accidents happen."
· "I'm the adult here."
· "I'm mad at the mess, not the child."
· "I'll keep calm, and we'll all learn something."
Rehearse this exercise over and over by play acting. Add in some lines for you to deliver:
· "oops! I made a mess."
· "I'll grab a towel."
· "It's ok! I'll help you clean it up." You may notice a big contrast between this and what you heard as a child. You may also notice it won't be as easy as it sounds.
When a real-life smallie occurs, you're more conditioned to control yourself. You can take a deep breath, walk away, keep cool, plan your strategy and return to the scene. For example, a child smears paint on the wall. You have conditioned yourself not to explode You're naturally angry and it's helpful for your child to see your displeasure. You go through your brief "no" lecture firmly, but without yelling. Then you call for a time-out. Once you have calmed down, insist the child (if old enough) help you clean up the mess. Being in control of your anger gives your child the message, "Mommy's angry, and she has a right to be this way. She doesn't like what I did, but she still likes me and thinks I'm capable enough to help clean up after myself."
We find going into a rage is often harder on us than the child. It leaves us feeling drained. Oftentimes, it's our after-anger feeling that bothers us more than the shoe thrown into the toilet. Once we realized that we could control our feelings more easily than our children can control their behavior, we were able to endure these annoying stages of childhood, and life with our kids became much easier. And when we do get mad at a child, we don't let the anger escalate until we become furious at ourselves for losing control.
- Mad at child
- Mad at self
- More mad at child for causing you to get mad at yourself
- Mad at being mad
You can break this cycle at any point to protect yourself and your child.
3. Make anger your ally
Emotions serve a purpose. Healthy anger compels you to fix the problem, first because you're not going to let your child's behavior go uncorrected, and second because you don't like how the child's misbehavior bothers you. This is helpful anger. I have always had a low tolerance for babies' screams. At around age fifteen months our eighth child, Lauren, developed an ear-piercing shriek that sent my blood pressure skyrocketing. Either my tolerance was decreasing or my ears were getting more tender with age, but Lauren's cry pushed my anger button. I didn't like her for it. I didn't like myself for not liking her. It might have been easier to deal with the problem if I had not been feeling angry. But because I was angry and realized it affected my attitude toward Lauren, I was impelled to do something about her cry, which I believed was an unbecoming behavior that didn't fit into this otherwise delightful little person. So instead of focusing on how much I hated those sounds, I focused on what situations triggered the shrieks. I tried to anticipate those triggers. I discovered that when Lauren was bored, tired, hungry, or ignored, she shrieked. She is a little person who needs a quick response and the shriek got it for her. My anger motivated me to learn creative shriek-stoppers. I've become a wiser parent. Lauren has become nicer to be around. That's helpful anger.
Anger becomes harmful when you don't regard it as a signal to fix the cause. You let it fester until you dislike your feelings, yourself, and the person who caused you to feel this way. You spend your life in a tiff over smallies that you could have ignored or biggies that you could have fixed. That's harmful anger.
4. Quit beating yourself up
Often anger flares inwardly, as well as outwardly, over something that you don't like; but upon reflection, after a lot of energy is spent emoting, you actually realize that the situation as it stands now is actually better for everyone concerned. This "hindsight" keeps us humble and helps us diffuse future flare-ups. Our motto concerning irritating mistakes has become: "Nobody's perfect. Human nature strikes again."
5. Beware of high-risk situations that trigger ange
Are you in a life situation that makes you angry? If so, you are at risk for venting your anger on your child. Losing a job or experiencing a similar self-esteem- breaking event can make you justifiably angry. But realize that this makes it easier for otherwise tolerable childish behaviors (smallies) to push you over the edge. When you're already angry, smallies easily become biggies. If you are suddenly the victim of an anger-producing situation, it helps to prepare your family: "I want you all to understand that daddy may be upset from to time during the next couple of months. I've just lost my job and I feel very anxious about it. I will find another job, and we'll all be okay, but if I have a short fuse and get angry at you sometimes, it's not because I don't love you, it's because I'm having trouble liking myself..." If you do blow your top, it's wise to apologize to your children (and expect similar apologies from them when they lose their tempers): "Pardon me, but I'm angry, and if I don't appear rational or appreciative, it's because I'm struggling—it's not your fault. I'm not mad at you." It also helps to be honest with yourself, recognize your vulnerability and keep your guard up until the anger-causing problem is resolved. There will always be problems in your life that you cannot control. As you become a more experienced parent—and person—you will come to realize that the only thing in your life that you can control are your own actions. How you handle anger can work for you or against you—and your child.
TOUCH LIFE
ouch my heart with tenderness
And fill my cup with love,
Share my dreams as I share yours
And we'll reach the stars above.
Take my hand as I grow old,
And lead me when I'm blind,
I'll show you that I really care -
Good friends are hard to find.
Touch my life and I'll touch yours
A little more each day,
And we can both find happiness
Somewhere along the way!
And fill my cup with love,
Share my dreams as I share yours
And we'll reach the stars above.
Take my hand as I grow old,
And lead me when I'm blind,
I'll show you that I really care -
Good friends are hard to find.
Touch my life and I'll touch yours
A little more each day,
And we can both find happiness
Somewhere along the way!
DARD MIX
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Rasta roke khadi hai yehi uljhan kab se
Koi pooche tou kahen kya ki kidhar jaate hain
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Naram aawaz bhali baaten muhazzab lahje
Pahli baarish mein hi ye rang utar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain--
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Rasta roke khadi hai yehi uljhan kab se
Koi pooche tou kahen kya ki kidhar jaate hain
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Naram aawaz bhali baaten muhazzab lahje
Pahli baarish mein hi ye rang utar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain
Zakhm kaise bhi hon kuch roz mein bhar jaate hain
Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain--
tumhara sath
"HASAYENGE" "DOST" hai 'HUM' "SAYA" Nahi, Jo "ANDHERA" hote hi Chale Jayenge.
Hum Hawa Nahi Jo Kho Jayenge,
Hum Waqt Nahi Jo Gujar Jayenga,
Hum MAusam Nahi Jo Badal Jayenge,
Hum To Aansu He Jo Khushi or Gum Dono Me Sath Aayenge.
Hum Hawa Nahi Jo Kho Jayenge,
Hum Waqt Nahi Jo Gujar Jayenga,
Hum MAusam Nahi Jo Badal Jayenge,
Hum To Aansu He Jo Khushi or Gum Dono Me Sath Aayenge.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
GOOD WIFE
Good Wife
A man was wandering around in a field, thinking about how good his wife had been to him, and how fortunate he was to have her.
He asked God, "Why did you make her so kind hearted?"
The Lord responded, "So you could love her, my son."
"Why did you make her so good looking?"
"So you could love her, my son." "Why did you make her such a good cook?"
"So you could love her, my son." The man thought about this. Then he said, "I don't mean to seem ungrateful or anything, but why did you make her so stupid?"
"So she could love you, my son."
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
what these says!!
Q: What did the lonely banana say?
A: I'm a"kela".
Q: What did the green peas say?
A: Nothing. They just "mutter"ed.
Q: What did the potato say when it answered the phone ?
A: "Aaloo?"
Q: Where do cauliflowers hang out?
A: In the Gobi desert.
Q: What did the flower say to its girl-friend?
A: Why do "phools" fall in love?
Q: What did the fat car say?
A: I`m a "mota"car.
Q: What did the confused egg say?
A: I don't "unda"-stand.
Q: What do shrimps sing on Christmas?
A: "Jhinga" Bells.
Q: What did the half eaten naan say?
A: I wish I was "puri".
Q: What did the lonely potato sing?
A: "Aaloo lonesome tonight?"
Q: What language do carrots speak?
A: Gajar-ati.
Q: What do you call an almost bald poet?
A: Ik-bal.
Dis is da funkiest...
Q: What did the first pizza slice say to the other pizza slice so
it would move?
A: Pizza - "HUT
A: I'm a"kela".
Q: What did the green peas say?
A: Nothing. They just "mutter"ed.
Q: What did the potato say when it answered the phone ?
A: "Aaloo?"
Q: Where do cauliflowers hang out?
A: In the Gobi desert.
Q: What did the flower say to its girl-friend?
A: Why do "phools" fall in love?
Q: What did the fat car say?
A: I`m a "mota"car.
Q: What did the confused egg say?
A: I don't "unda"-stand.
Q: What do shrimps sing on Christmas?
A: "Jhinga" Bells.
Q: What did the half eaten naan say?
A: I wish I was "puri".
Q: What did the lonely potato sing?
A: "Aaloo lonesome tonight?"
Q: What language do carrots speak?
A: Gajar-ati.
Q: What do you call an almost bald poet?
A: Ik-bal.
Dis is da funkiest...
Q: What did the first pizza slice say to the other pizza slice so
it would move?
A: Pizza - "HUT
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
beautiful sotry=bhagvad gita
This is beautiful story - if inspired please forward, else keep it can't say when it might inspire you!
An old Farmer lived on a farm in the mountains with his young grandson. Each morning Grandpa was up early sitting at the kitchen table reading his Bhagavat Geeta. His grandson wanted to be just like him and tried to imitate him in every way he could.
One day the grandson asked, "Grandpa! I try to read the Bhagawat Geeta just like you but I don't understand it, and what I do understand I forget as soon as I close the book. What good does reading the Bhagawat Geeta do?"
The Grandfather quietly turned from putting coal in the stove and replied, "Take this coal basket down to the river and bring me back a basket of water."
The boy did as he was told, but all the water leaked out before he got back to the house. The grandfather laughed and said, "You'll have to move a little faster next time," and sent him back to the river with the basket to try again.
This time the boy ran faster, but again the basket was empty before he returned home. Out of breath, he told his grandfather that it was impossible to carry water in a basket, and he went to get a bucket instead. The old man said, "I don't want a bucket of water; I want a basket of water. You're just not trying hard enough," and he went out the door to watch the boy try again.
At this point, the boy knew it was impossible, but he wanted to show his grandfather that even if he ran as fast as he could, the water would leak out before he got back to the house.
The boy again dipped the basket into river and ran hard, but when he reached his grandfather the basket was again empty. Out of breath, he said, "See Grandpa, it's useless!" >
"So you think it is useless?" The old man said, "Look at the basket."
The boy looked at the basket and for the first time realized that the basket was different. It had been transformed from a dirty old coal basket and was now clean, inside and out.
"Son, that's what happens when you read the Bhagavat Geeta. You might not understand or remember everything, but when you read it, you will be changed, inside and out. That is the work of Krishna in our lives."
An old Farmer lived on a farm in the mountains with his young grandson. Each morning Grandpa was up early sitting at the kitchen table reading his Bhagavat Geeta. His grandson wanted to be just like him and tried to imitate him in every way he could.
One day the grandson asked, "Grandpa! I try to read the Bhagawat Geeta just like you but I don't understand it, and what I do understand I forget as soon as I close the book. What good does reading the Bhagawat Geeta do?"
The Grandfather quietly turned from putting coal in the stove and replied, "Take this coal basket down to the river and bring me back a basket of water."
The boy did as he was told, but all the water leaked out before he got back to the house. The grandfather laughed and said, "You'll have to move a little faster next time," and sent him back to the river with the basket to try again.
This time the boy ran faster, but again the basket was empty before he returned home. Out of breath, he told his grandfather that it was impossible to carry water in a basket, and he went to get a bucket instead. The old man said, "I don't want a bucket of water; I want a basket of water. You're just not trying hard enough," and he went out the door to watch the boy try again.
At this point, the boy knew it was impossible, but he wanted to show his grandfather that even if he ran as fast as he could, the water would leak out before he got back to the house.
The boy again dipped the basket into river and ran hard, but when he reached his grandfather the basket was again empty. Out of breath, he said, "See Grandpa, it's useless!" >
"So you think it is useless?" The old man said, "Look at the basket."
The boy looked at the basket and for the first time realized that the basket was different. It had been transformed from a dirty old coal basket and was now clean, inside and out.
"Son, that's what happens when you read the Bhagavat Geeta. You might not understand or remember everything, but when you read it, you will be changed, inside and out. That is the work of Krishna in our lives."
man'logic
A man and his wife were in a court for their divorce case.
The Problem was who should get custody of the child.
The wife screamed and jumped up and said: "Your Honor. I brought The child into the world with all the pain and labor.
The child Should be in my custody. "
The judge turned to the husband and said: "What do you have to Say in your defense?"
The man sat for a while contemplating...then slowly rose. "Your Honor... If I put a dollar in a Pepsi Vending Machine and a Pepsi Comes out...
Whose Pepsi is it... The machine's or mine?"
The Problem was who should get custody of the child.
The wife screamed and jumped up and said: "Your Honor. I brought The child into the world with all the pain and labor.
The child Should be in my custody. "
The judge turned to the husband and said: "What do you have to Say in your defense?"
The man sat for a while contemplating...then slowly rose. "Your Honor... If I put a dollar in a Pepsi Vending Machine and a Pepsi Comes out...
Whose Pepsi is it... The machine's or mine?"
WHEN I SAW IN YOUE EYES
When I saw in your eyes that you respected me
I felt on top of the world
As if a banquet full of admirers
Were clapping and whistling.
When I saw in your eyes that you liked me
The world turned around twice rapidly
And even the birds turned giddy --
I could tell by their silly chirps in my heart.
Could I see in your eyes that you loved me --
How can I foresee what gales should blow?
Not that I could feel worthy,
But to be worthy would be my whole desire.
If I saw in your eyes that you desired me,
That I had inspired lust in the one I so desire,
I doubt I could stand undazed in that world,
Life should shake so around and within me.
And if I ever ever by God's mercy
May see in your eyes, dear friend,
The content of one I have fully satisfied,
I shall live forever in that moment's joy.
I felt on top of the world
As if a banquet full of admirers
Were clapping and whistling.
When I saw in your eyes that you liked me
The world turned around twice rapidly
And even the birds turned giddy --
I could tell by their silly chirps in my heart.
Could I see in your eyes that you loved me --
How can I foresee what gales should blow?
Not that I could feel worthy,
But to be worthy would be my whole desire.
If I saw in your eyes that you desired me,
That I had inspired lust in the one I so desire,
I doubt I could stand undazed in that world,
Life should shake so around and within me.
And if I ever ever by God's mercy
May see in your eyes, dear friend,
The content of one I have fully satisfied,
I shall live forever in that moment's joy.
DOSTI KA AHESAS
Tumse doori ka ehsaas sataane lagaa,
Tere saath guzaraa har lamha yaad aane laga,
Jab bhi tujhe bhoolne ki koshish ki aye dost,
Tu dil ke aur bhi kareeb aane laga !
Tere saath guzaraa har lamha yaad aane laga,
Jab bhi tujhe bhoolne ki koshish ki aye dost,
Tu dil ke aur bhi kareeb aane laga !
Monday, July 9, 2007
maa
Jab Tu Paida Huwa Kitna Majboor Tha
Yeh Jahan Teri Sonch Se Bhi Dour Tha...
Haath Paaon Bhi Tab Tere Apney Na Thay
Teri Ankhon Main Duniya Ke Sapney Na Thay...
Tujh Ko Aata Sirf Rona Hi Tha
Doodh Pi Ke Kaam Tera Sona Hi Tha...
Tujh Ko Chalna Sikhaya Tha Maa Ne Teri
Tujh Ko Dil Main Basaya Tha Maa Ne Teri...
Maa Ke Saaye Main Parwaan Chadne Laga
Waqt Ke Sath Qad Tera Badne Laga...
Dhirey Dhirey Tu Kadiyal Jawan Ho Gaya
Tujh Pe Saara Jahan Meharban Ho Gaya...
Zor-e- Bazoo Pe Tu Baat Karne Laga
Khud Hi Sajney Laga Khud Sanwarney Laga...
Ek Din Ek Ladki Tujhe Bhaa Gayei
Ban Ke Dulhan Woh Tere Ghar Agayei...
Ab Faraayez Se Tu Door Honay Laga
Beej Nafrat Ka Khud Hi Tu Boney Laga...
Phir Tu Maa Baap Ko Bhi Bhulaaney Laga
Teer Baton Ke Phir Tu Chalaney Laga...
Baat Be Baat Unn Se Tu Ladney Laga
Qayda ek Naya Tu Phir PaDnay Laga...
Yaad Kar Tujh Se Maa Ne Kaha ek Din
Abb Humara Guzara Nahin Tere Bin...
Sunn Ke Yeh Baat Tu Tayesh Main Agaya
Tera Gussa Teri Aqal Ko Kha Gaya...
Josh Main Aake Tu Ne Yeh Maa Se Kaha
Main Tha Khamosh Sab Dekhta Hi Raha...
Aaj Kehta Hoon Peecha Mera Chor Do
Jo Hai Rishta Mera Tum Se Woh Tod Do...
Jao Ja Ke Kahin Kaam Dhanda Karo
Log Marte Hain Tum Bhi Kahin Ja Maro...
Bait Kar Aahen Bharti Thi Maa Raat Bhar
Inki Aahon Ka Tujh Par Howa Na Asar...
Ek Din Baap tera Chala Rooth Kar
Kaise Bikhri Thi Phir Teri Maa Toot Kar...
Phir Woh Bhi Bas kal Ko Bhulati Rahi
Zindagi Isko Har Roz Satati Rahi...
Ek Din Maut Ko Bhi Taras Agaya
Iska Rona Bhi Taqdeer Ko Bha Gaya ...
Ashk Ankhon Main Thay Woh Rawana Huwi
Maut Ki Ek Hichki Bahana Huwi...
Ek Sukoon Us ke Chehre Pe Chaaney Laga
Phir Tu Mayyat Ko Uski Sajaney Laga...
Muddatain Ho Gayi Aaj Booddha Hai Tu
Tooti Khatiya Pe PaDa Bora Hai Tu...
Tere Bacche Bhi Abb Tujh Se Dartey Nahi
Nafraten Hain, Muhabbat Woh Kartey Nahi...
Dard Mein Tu Pukare Ke "O MERI MAA"
TERE DAM SE HI ROSHAN THE DONO JAHAN...
Waqt Chalta Rahta Hai Waqt Rukta Nahi
Toot Jata Hai Woh Jo Ke Jhukta Nahi...
Bann Ke Ibrat Ka Tu Abb Nishaan Reh Gaya
Dhoondh ab Zor Tera Kahan Reh Gaya...
Tu AHKAAM-E-RABBI Bhulata Raha
APNE MAAN-BAAP KO TU SATATA RAHA...
Kaat Le Tu Wohi, Tu Ne Boya Tha Jo
Tujh Ko Kaise Miley Tu Ne Khoya Tha Jo...
Yaad Kar Ke Gaya Daur, Tu Rone Laga
Kal Jo Tu Ne Kiya Aaj Phir Hone Laga...
Maut Maange Tujhe Maut Aati Nahin
Maa Ki Surat Nigahon Se Jati Nahi...
Tu Jo Khanse Tu Aulad Daantey Tujhe
Tu Hai Nasoor Sukh Kaun Baantey Tujhe...
Maut Ayegi Tujh Ko Magar Waqt Par
Bann Hi Jaye Gi Qabar Teri Waqt Par...
QADAR MAA BAAP KI GAR KOI JAAN LE
APNI JANNAT KO DUNIYA MAIN PEHCHAN LE...
Aur Leyta Rahe Woh BaDaun Ki Dua
Usi Ke Dono Jahan, Uska Haami KHUDA...
Yaad Rakhna her aulaad Is Baat Ko
Bhool Jana Na REHMAT KI BARSAT Ko
Yeh Jahan Teri Sonch Se Bhi Dour Tha...
Haath Paaon Bhi Tab Tere Apney Na Thay
Teri Ankhon Main Duniya Ke Sapney Na Thay...
Tujh Ko Aata Sirf Rona Hi Tha
Doodh Pi Ke Kaam Tera Sona Hi Tha...
Tujh Ko Chalna Sikhaya Tha Maa Ne Teri
Tujh Ko Dil Main Basaya Tha Maa Ne Teri...
Maa Ke Saaye Main Parwaan Chadne Laga
Waqt Ke Sath Qad Tera Badne Laga...
Dhirey Dhirey Tu Kadiyal Jawan Ho Gaya
Tujh Pe Saara Jahan Meharban Ho Gaya...
Zor-e- Bazoo Pe Tu Baat Karne Laga
Khud Hi Sajney Laga Khud Sanwarney Laga...
Ek Din Ek Ladki Tujhe Bhaa Gayei
Ban Ke Dulhan Woh Tere Ghar Agayei...
Ab Faraayez Se Tu Door Honay Laga
Beej Nafrat Ka Khud Hi Tu Boney Laga...
Phir Tu Maa Baap Ko Bhi Bhulaaney Laga
Teer Baton Ke Phir Tu Chalaney Laga...
Baat Be Baat Unn Se Tu Ladney Laga
Qayda ek Naya Tu Phir PaDnay Laga...
Yaad Kar Tujh Se Maa Ne Kaha ek Din
Abb Humara Guzara Nahin Tere Bin...
Sunn Ke Yeh Baat Tu Tayesh Main Agaya
Tera Gussa Teri Aqal Ko Kha Gaya...
Josh Main Aake Tu Ne Yeh Maa Se Kaha
Main Tha Khamosh Sab Dekhta Hi Raha...
Aaj Kehta Hoon Peecha Mera Chor Do
Jo Hai Rishta Mera Tum Se Woh Tod Do...
Jao Ja Ke Kahin Kaam Dhanda Karo
Log Marte Hain Tum Bhi Kahin Ja Maro...
Bait Kar Aahen Bharti Thi Maa Raat Bhar
Inki Aahon Ka Tujh Par Howa Na Asar...
Ek Din Baap tera Chala Rooth Kar
Kaise Bikhri Thi Phir Teri Maa Toot Kar...
Phir Woh Bhi Bas kal Ko Bhulati Rahi
Zindagi Isko Har Roz Satati Rahi...
Ek Din Maut Ko Bhi Taras Agaya
Iska Rona Bhi Taqdeer Ko Bha Gaya ...
Ashk Ankhon Main Thay Woh Rawana Huwi
Maut Ki Ek Hichki Bahana Huwi...
Ek Sukoon Us ke Chehre Pe Chaaney Laga
Phir Tu Mayyat Ko Uski Sajaney Laga...
Muddatain Ho Gayi Aaj Booddha Hai Tu
Tooti Khatiya Pe PaDa Bora Hai Tu...
Tere Bacche Bhi Abb Tujh Se Dartey Nahi
Nafraten Hain, Muhabbat Woh Kartey Nahi...
Dard Mein Tu Pukare Ke "O MERI MAA"
TERE DAM SE HI ROSHAN THE DONO JAHAN...
Waqt Chalta Rahta Hai Waqt Rukta Nahi
Toot Jata Hai Woh Jo Ke Jhukta Nahi...
Bann Ke Ibrat Ka Tu Abb Nishaan Reh Gaya
Dhoondh ab Zor Tera Kahan Reh Gaya...
Tu AHKAAM-E-RABBI Bhulata Raha
APNE MAAN-BAAP KO TU SATATA RAHA...
Kaat Le Tu Wohi, Tu Ne Boya Tha Jo
Tujh Ko Kaise Miley Tu Ne Khoya Tha Jo...
Yaad Kar Ke Gaya Daur, Tu Rone Laga
Kal Jo Tu Ne Kiya Aaj Phir Hone Laga...
Maut Maange Tujhe Maut Aati Nahin
Maa Ki Surat Nigahon Se Jati Nahi...
Tu Jo Khanse Tu Aulad Daantey Tujhe
Tu Hai Nasoor Sukh Kaun Baantey Tujhe...
Maut Ayegi Tujh Ko Magar Waqt Par
Bann Hi Jaye Gi Qabar Teri Waqt Par...
QADAR MAA BAAP KI GAR KOI JAAN LE
APNI JANNAT KO DUNIYA MAIN PEHCHAN LE...
Aur Leyta Rahe Woh BaDaun Ki Dua
Usi Ke Dono Jahan, Uska Haami KHUDA...
Yaad Rakhna her aulaad Is Baat Ko
Bhool Jana Na REHMAT KI BARSAT Ko
SHAM TANHA AB GUJARATE NAHI
Sham tanha ab guzarte nahi,
tum aajao sham meri guzar jayegi.
Bechain ruh ko bhi kuch karar mil jayegi.
Teri panaah me sham meri guzar jayegi...
Aaj kuchh kami hai tere bagair,
na rang hai na roshni hai tere bagair,
waqt apni raftar se chal raha hai,
bus dhadkan thami hai tere bagair..
Baat dil ki bata dena aadat hai meri,
Bus yun hi muskra dena aadat hai meri,
Log samajtey hai mujhe koi gum nahi,
Kyunki har gum me muskra dena aadat hai meri .
Dil me chahat ka diya jalakar chhup gaya koi,
Mujhe apna diwana bana kar chup gaya koi,
yeh dard kya hota hai maloom na tha humen,
Dard ka raasta dikha kar chup gaya koi..
Main kaya hoon, mera ASL kaya hai
Pyar ki raah mein, yeh karobar kaya hai;
Mere ahasaas aapko, pighala denge
Milker to dekhiye, ghabrane ki kaya baat hai.
Ab unki chahat me yeh naubat aa gayi,
thandi hawa bhi hume jala gayi,
kehti hai aap yahan taraste hi reh gaye,
main tumhare sanam ko chhu kar bhi aa gayi.
Ishq karne ka usne sila humein khoob diya,
dil de ke humein gulam kar liya.
Aise ishq kiya zalim ne,
ke zinda hote hue bhi zinda laash bana diya.
Dil jo tute ga to faryad karoge tum bhi,
hum na rahenge to yaad karoge tum bhi,
janaza niklega mera rooge tum bhi,
dafnaya jaiga mujhe tho jaloge tum bhi.
tum aajao sham meri guzar jayegi.
Bechain ruh ko bhi kuch karar mil jayegi.
Teri panaah me sham meri guzar jayegi...
Aaj kuchh kami hai tere bagair,
na rang hai na roshni hai tere bagair,
waqt apni raftar se chal raha hai,
bus dhadkan thami hai tere bagair..
Baat dil ki bata dena aadat hai meri,
Bus yun hi muskra dena aadat hai meri,
Log samajtey hai mujhe koi gum nahi,
Kyunki har gum me muskra dena aadat hai meri .
Dil me chahat ka diya jalakar chhup gaya koi,
Mujhe apna diwana bana kar chup gaya koi,
yeh dard kya hota hai maloom na tha humen,
Dard ka raasta dikha kar chup gaya koi..
Main kaya hoon, mera ASL kaya hai
Pyar ki raah mein, yeh karobar kaya hai;
Mere ahasaas aapko, pighala denge
Milker to dekhiye, ghabrane ki kaya baat hai.
Ab unki chahat me yeh naubat aa gayi,
thandi hawa bhi hume jala gayi,
kehti hai aap yahan taraste hi reh gaye,
main tumhare sanam ko chhu kar bhi aa gayi.
Ishq karne ka usne sila humein khoob diya,
dil de ke humein gulam kar liya.
Aise ishq kiya zalim ne,
ke zinda hote hue bhi zinda laash bana diya.
Dil jo tute ga to faryad karoge tum bhi,
hum na rahenge to yaad karoge tum bhi,
janaza niklega mera rooge tum bhi,
dafnaya jaiga mujhe tho jaloge tum bhi.
my wish for u
Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart,
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Faith so that you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And love to complete your life."
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